If You Are Poor Money Is Not Your Problem
You have a money problem.
You’re stressed because you don’t have enough personal cash.
If you only had a little more money, then many of your problems would go away.
If you had more money you could do the things you were meant to do in life.
If you can relate to any of these statements then you are normal. Yes normal, but completely wrong. Money is not your issue.
The idea that the lack of money is your problem misses the true issue that lies at the heart of so many problems that we often believe money can fix.
If you are reading this to find a way to generate more money in you life, then you won’t be disappointed. But before I unveil the mystery and secret to generating more money flow in your life, I have to put things in perspective.
Let’s examine the truth with respect to your having too little or too much money. What? Too much money!? Is that even possible?
I am not sure because like you I continue to allow room for more and more money to flow into my life. To date I have not reached the point where I think I have too much. However, in putting this ‘money can solve my problems’ mindset into perspective I must share a warning of caution. If you are of the mind that money will solve your problems – think again. Truthfully, some people do have too much.
I know you have heard the stories of lottery winners that ended up either broke, dead or in someway worse off than before they won the so called answer to all their problems. And I know you’ve heard the stories of those multi millionaires that are so unhappy with their lives that they commit suicide or some other devastatingly destructive act.
Yes I know – If you had the money, things would be different. I don’t doubt that for a second. I feel the same way. I would not be as careless as the instant millionaire that won their fortune in the lottery or as ungrateful as the depressed multi millionaire that cannot seem to appreciate the gift of wealth they are blessed to have in their lives.
What is clear however is that no matter what your economic standing is – you have the same opportunities for failure, depression, loss, loneliness, unhappiness and all the other negative emotional states we all want to avoid.
Whether you consider yourself among the rich, the middle class or one of the impoverished, the opportunity for grief, sadness, disappointment and general unhappiness can affect you or anyone of any financial class.
Most of you have heard and already know that money cannot buy happiness. So then, what is it that makes us pursue it so hard as if IT IS the answer to all your problems?
When I examined this phenomenon by talking and interviewing people of all economic status (wealthy, homeless and average income earners) I found something very interesting. Money is not the issue at all.
When I peeled back the onion one layer at a time I found that it is your RELATIONSHIP with money that determines how money with flow in and out of Your life and how it will help hinder or change your life in significant ways.
Yes, your RELATIONSHIP with money.
- This in includes your beliefs about what it can and can’t do for you.
- It includes your thoughts on how easy or difficult it is to come by.
- It includes how worthy you feel to have a lot of it in your life.
- It even includes your spiritual connection with money.
- That is to say – Is there guilt in having too much?
- Is loving money really the root of all evil?
All of these aspects speak to your relationship with money. This sets the stage and creates the smooth or very bumpy path you travel in search of more.
Resulting from this discovery I have been able to apply a secret that moves people through what they would have called their darkest financial moments to a place where the darkness has lifted and the flow of money has increased beyond their expectations.
So, what is this secret you ask?
The secret has more to do with how your mindset is constructed to leverage the power of your thoughts, knowledge and wisdom.
The first thing that has to happen is that you must be very clear and embrace that money – abundant or in lack – is not the core issue for you. If you are having difficulty and can relate to the first four statements of this article then I say to you that the issue you must address immediately is increasing your awareness that money is available to you right now. Money is always there and available to you in small or very large amounts. This is true for everyone of us.
Once you TRULY grasp that concept, then you will quickly refocus your mind and attention on resolving the things that may truly be causing your financial heartburn.
Grasping the concept that money is ever available to you is not a difficult one to embrace. However, it does mean tossing out some of your conventional wisdom. Try looking at it using this example: If you had your closest loved one (spouse, child, partner, parent) taken from you and were told in order to ensure their safety and have them returned – you have to come up with a certain amount of money, say $5,000. How would you respond? Beyond calling the FBI – perhaps not in all cases, but certainly in most – you would begin looking for ways to raise the money needed to secure the safety of your loved one.
Certainly the stakes (a loved one being kidnapped) are not often that high, but whatever desire you have put on hold until you get the money, or whatever problem you can not solve until you have the money – Think of what you would do if you HAD to raise the money.
- Would you sell your personal items online?
- Would you borrow from a friend or bank?
- Would you hock your jewelry?
- Would you dig into your retirement funds or life savings?
- Would you work a second job or overtime?
I would venture that you would dig very deep into your imagination in finding ways to come up with the funds needed (to get your loved one back.)
If you have a problem that is big enough or a desire or goal that is burning hot enough inside of you, then there is no way that money would stand in the way of your accomplishing what you want to accomplish.
With that in mind it then becomes clearer that money is not as much of an issue as something else. That something else is desire. You have to want it bad enough. Is not getting what you what considered high enough stakes for you to do what it takes to transform your financial situation?
How much do you want to eliminate that thing which is presenting the challenge you face? If it is a huge problem or burning desire then you will quickly see that money is not the problem. In most cases that I am aware of, willingness to pull out all the stops to get the money is what stands in the way of you pursuing your goals or solving your problems.
The fear that you won’t be able to pay back a loan or the fear that your desired venture will fail, or the worry that you will have less wealth if you sell anything you currently own in order to acquire something else you desire. Fear, doubt and worry are typically the cause of inaction. It’s not the lack of money.
In all of these cases you have made a sub conscious choice to allow the issue or problem to outweigh your courage and confidence to solve it.
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